It is very confusing...its dunno how to explain it either. Dec when u guys meet up with me, then i can tell u verbally.
I met up with my sec sch gf to study, hmm ok...the one that me and her with a grp of close friends, we went to one of the guy's place for stayover. Surprisingly, again..from wad she suggested after i shared with her our problem...im surprised most of the things she asked me to try, i already tried to during the conversation, but i failed. Cos he said he dun wan...is abit childish she said And then i asked her whether does her bf mind abt her going to koonjin's place (think only mf knows who). She said he does mind...but not as bad. Cos he knows she likes it. Its like jus a gathering at someone's place. So i guess its a matter of Compromising each other.
I said i feel its males ego..too strong. She said the problem between us is so small, wont be able to light up fire to break up. But sadly my dear cant forget abt these matters, cos it is constantly replaying back in his mind. ITS The StRess.
I told her that my dear is a loner, i know him. Cos if doesnt like to be involved in social activities in camp, is a truly introvert. Likes to be at home...sign. She used to be like that....but somehow, she have to consider other ppl's feeling like her bf. Dun always shut urself up, open up and everything will be better.
Well, everyone suggested giving him more time, and i will abide his decision too. Dun worry ppl!...if i really canot take it, i wont force myself either. One step at a time....i know my mistakes after this thing happened. Let say if later on, i find that i cant tolerate his inner self, of cos i would jus like to be friends with him. I need to know more abt his inner self, cos its quite disturbing to me. Its the second time he disappeared and need some time to think again. I dun want this to happen again if and only if we are back as couple.
Thanks xin, mf, bao and chris for cheering me up and all the advices! Im fine le! Hehe. =)
